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Author's program note. This article will touch you more deeply than you might otherwise allow if you find one of the innumerable renditions of George Gershwyn's "Someone To Watch Over Me". (1926, from the often-revived musical "Oh, Kay!") The one by the late chanteuse Amy Winehouse (given the tragic and squalid circumstances of her end) is both ironic and haunting for she most assuredly had no one to watch over her... much less save her from herself.
Go to any search engine now, find the singer you like... play it once or twice...for this is the desired, unmistakable sound for today's tale...
It starts with a boy from the Prairies...
"Know thyself!" is perhaps the most famous (and surely the shortest) command (and admonition) of our culture. Pausanias, a Greek writer of the second century A.D., had the words chiseled in the wall of the Temple of Apollo at Delphi. There's been plenty argumentation ever since, as curious offspring seek to live those words, fully, completely, ardently...
... while protective parents, wiser to the world's ways, say and will say to the end of the universe "Over my dead body, buster! And be back by 11... or else!"
If I tell you, confess really, that I was the boy who always was home early and never (except for one notable occasion, too notable to tell you here) knew what transgressing against "or else" might mean, you will perhaps have an inkling about the subject of this tale. I was always "The Best Boy", sheltered, protected, indulged... I was not insensible of my privileged situation... but deep within (so deep for years I didn't even know the notion existed) there was a desire to taste forbidden fruit and find out what happened when you walked on the Wild Side in dead of night
Others were anxious to help me out of my deep-seated predicament. Once, at university, a determined bunch of boys, affronted by my puritan outlook, tied me to a chair and, for an unblushing hour or two spat every four-letter word, every expletive (none deleted), and every vulgar configuration known to advanced eighteen year olds at me... my hands tied to my side, no chance of protecting those virgin ears. I was appalled... horrified... but I emerged, despite their strenuous efforts, unscathed. What was more notable than their failure to brand me was the fact that every one of my outspoken captors, every single one, was a clergyman's son... the apple of the bishop's eye being by far the most advanced and knowledgeable about the devil's flamboyant lexicon. In due course, he, too, became a clergyman...
It didn't matter where I was, people, being the helpful souls they are, sensed my situation... and wished to autograph it with a unique imprecation, malediction. One day, in about 1967, I attended a packed poetry reading given by Kenneth Rexroth (1905-1982). It was standing-room only; I know. I was standing.
Rexroth, with Satan's own radar, read a poem, perhaps it was about innocence, then announced he would, dowser-like, find the most innocent boy in the crowd. As he searched, he made his way closer to... me. And then, to my acute embarrassment, he announced he had found him... and that he was.... me. Thereupon he planted a fervent wake-the-dead kiss on me. I sank to the very earth, red, abashed, humiliated... most of all for the unwelcome designation that came with the buss: the most innocent boy on campus. Worst of all, it may have been true...
And, if so, it stayed true, for I was on the determined path to fame and fortune, which had not so much been prophesied as promised me... and I meant to have them, all of them, just as fast as possible....
It was then I discovered Nick and Nora Charles. Quick! Do you know who they are? Your parents could tell you. They were the utterly attractive couple invented by Dashiell Hammett (1894-1961) the crime writer and brought so memorably to life by William Powell and Myrna Loy in a series of 14 "Thin Man" films from 1936-1941. They were what ever boy wanted who was sure life was what was happening wherever he wasn't... and he yearned to go to that place at once, no questions asked, full speed ahead. As a result, I didn't merely watch... I scrutinized Nick and Nora and every aspect of their wonderful lives.
This included the way they dressed, how they made their martinis.... and how they comported themselves when they'd each had one too many (crucial for a boy who had never tasted alcohol at all)... and of course just who was included amongst their extensive acquaintance. Why, they knew everyone on both coasts, governors, mayors, congressmen, thieves, murderers, marauders of every kind. And, of course, a small army of the "little people" who keep big cities going 24 hours a day and who see everything and everyone.
I learned a lot from just how Nick and Nora (who was always quick to follow Nick's fancy footwork) treated these folks: always with courtesy, good humor, and no "side" whatsoever. It was an eye-opening revelation; you could be a convicted felon and yet be treated, by respectable folk, like the human being you were. I saw the same truth at work when in "Gone With The Wind" Melanie Wilkes met Belle Watling when Belle dropped off a pocketful of gold for Atlanta's desperately needy hospital. Miz. Wilkes said she was proud to be under an obligation to Miz. Watling... This, I learned for good, was what a real lady would say.
And thus, firmly convinced that each person I encountered, no matter how black their history or damning their circumstances, deserved my politeness, my empathy, my kindness, I embarked on Life 101 and began to collect an astonishing grab-bag of people from the gutter up. One day one of the most troubled of these, a young man whose life, at just 22 or so, so, resembled nothing so much as the essence of chaos, confusion, mayhem and pain, said that he respected me because I treated him the same way I treated everyone else, not like a petty criminal with a rap-sheet as long as my arm. It was one of the most profound compliments I have ever received. Such people called me "Dr. Jeffrey" and said that in the certainties of my life they found a refuge, no matter how limited, for the uncertainties of their own. And, of course, the "helps" (as Queen Victoria called them) helped, too; the food, the clothes I (the least fashionable of men) no longer needed, the few bucks that cost me so little to give... all these were thankfully received. Most of the time, it was just the thought that counted and the unjudging ear.
But just the other day, the potential hazards of my behavior was borne home to me when I received a phone call from the bank that someone had just tried to cash one of my checks, only to discover just how well known I am, since the teller knew (as she would) that the signature was not mine. The miscreant fled... in unnecessary trouble for just sixty dollars. I probably would have given it to him... after all I know he has a young child.
My valued bank officer Helen read me the riot act. How could I have let him in, into my house of all houses... and left my checks out? How could I explain... she would only say, and rightly so, that I might have been killed. But she knows nothing of writers and their needs; hers was the advice of common-sense and bankers. I took the dressing down like a boy of 20, not a respected man of 64. Then later that day I called the lady and thanked her for looking out for me, grateful for her concern and even the sharp words delivered with her Irish up. You see, I have someone, and maybe many such, to watch over me... while the thief I befriended faces misdemeanor charges and perhaps the dawning recognition of the worst that's yet to come.... without anyone to watch over him.
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Harvard-educated Dr. Jeffrey Lant is CEO of Worldprofit, Inc. at www.worldprofit.com, providing a wide range of online services for small and-home based businesses. Dr. Jeffrey Lant is also the author of 18 best-selling business books. Republished with author's permission by Christopher Hessman http://ProvenAutomatedBiz.com. Check out Income Hybrid -> http://www.ProvenAutomatedBiz.com/?rd=cw1zYyQ9
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